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It happens that we all make mistakes. Sometimes our mistakes are big sometimes our mistakes are small. In this case you made a mistake and your guy couldn't take it anymore. If you fall into this category and said one too many things and your relationship broke up because of circumstances then this article will help you strategize how to get your guy back.

The big question now is how to get your guy back and convince him that what you two had was special? This will take some doing but it can be done and if it's to be then it will happen. Consider this as get your guy back guide to making up.

Passion never comes without a price and unfortunately hurtful words may come between you two without real intention. In this case the price was that your guy friend took you serious and now you want him back.

Okay what is said is said and you can't undue that but at this point you have to accept that whatever happened was because both of you were at fault. I don't mean pointing fingers and laying blame because if you both laid reasons and excuses towards each other then both of you need to muster up. Muster up in the fact that maybe if you cheated it was because you didn't get enough attention. Or the fact that he cheated it was because you didn't give the attention to him as he needed.

It takes a tough character to stand up and say how they feel about the situation but the bottom line is that the cheater is morally responsible for their actions. But what caused this action in the first place needs to be understood.

Cheating or infidelity whatever you call it puts the fault on both parties. One for letting it happen and the other for making it happen.

Now if things didn't get too far the importance of forgive and forget has to come into play. Forgiveness takes an internal act of faith and letting go of the internal anger that naturally is within you. But unless you can understand the reasons and let go of this feeling you'll never regain the trust that you once had with your former boyfriend.

The whole object here is to get your guy back and that is one of the pre requisites to re establishing the relationship.

The first act here is to apologize. If you were the person at fault or even if you weren't you need to apologize. Apologize in the fact that you didn't want the breakup and apologize to the tune of being sincere. Don't beg and plead for forgiveness but be real and sincere and let your feelings be known.

Honesty is the best policy and letting him know how hurt you felt can be the ice breaker in re establishing that union you once had with him.

You may need to tend to his ego a bit and make him feel even more special than you think he is. But that is part of the play here and you need to make sure that you still need him in your life. Don't go overboard here but make your best effort in letting him know that you are truly sorry for what had happened.

At this point the action is on him. If he still doesn't come around then you will have to settle for the friends issue for now. Don't push him or he'll never come around but let him know that you are his true friend and would like to reconnect again in the future.

He may need space to re-evaluate the situation even now but you need to let him figure it out as well.

Given time and the realization that you are one of the true friends of his and your dream will come true.

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